A Christian boudoir photographer&rsquo;s story of healing, shame, and sacred beauty.
<h2 data-end="412" data-start="382">The Moment It All Began</h2>
I was just a kid when I found it &mdash; a Playboy magazine.
Curiosity lit up my whole body like wildfire. Not perversion &mdash; wonder. Beauty. Divine ache. Something stirred in me that I didn&rsquo;t yet have language for.
But that&rsquo;s not when the shame came.
The shame came later, when my dad found out. He didn&rsquo;t comfort me. He didn&rsquo;t say, &ldquo;It&rsquo;s okay to be curious.&rdquo; Instead, I heard:
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&ldquo;That&rsquo;s shameful.&rdquo; &ldquo;That&rsquo;s dirty.&rdquo; &ldquo;That&rsquo;s not real.&rdquo;
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I know he meant to protect me. But what I heard &mdash; and carried for years &mdash; was this:
Sex is wrong. Desire is dangerous. Beauty should be feared.

<h2 data-end="1066" data-start="1031">When Desire Became Dangerous</h2>
And yet, he also gave me one truth that stuck:
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&ldquo;Find something you love to do &mdash; and find a way to get paid for it.&rdquo;
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The truth?
There&rsquo;s nothing I&rsquo;ve ever loved more than marveling at the beauty of a woman&rsquo;s body &mdash; not in lust, but in awe and reverence.
But for years, I believed that made me bad. That my desire made me unsafe. That loving the erotic was loving the wrong things.
Now I know: that longing wasn&rsquo;t broken. It was the beginning of my calling.

<h2 data-end="1813" data-start="1783">When I Saw Her Light Up</h2>
In 2017, my wife did her first boudoir session. It changed her.
She stood taller. Smiled brighter. Reclaimed something in herself.
And I knew &mdash; I wanted to help others experience the same.
A few years later, during the pandemic, I picked up a camera. I photographed someone close to me, and when she saw the images, she said:
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&ldquo;You have a gift. You need to do this for other women.&rdquo;
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For once, I listened. And I haven&rsquo;t stopped since.
I didn&rsquo;t just want to take &ldquo;hot photos.&rdquo; I wanted to help women feel beautiful, powerful, and seen as sacred.
With every session, I realized: This wasn&rsquo;t a hobby. This was a healing assignment.

<h2 data-end="2529" data-start="2483">Can a Christian Photographer Be Erotic?</h2>
I&rsquo;ve walked a long road &mdash; From secret addiction to sacred integration. From hiding my desire to honoring it as divine.
Here&rsquo;s what I believe with my whole heart:
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God never gave sexuality to the devil &mdash; the Church just surrendered it.
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For years, I didn&rsquo;t think I could be both:
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A Christian
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And a man who finds joy in erotic beauty
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But now I know:
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I&rsquo;m not both in spite of my faith &mdash; I&rsquo;m both because of it.
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<h2 data-end="3219" data-start="3193">From Taker to Giver</h2>
There&rsquo;s a verse in Ephesians that changed me:
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&ldquo;He who has been stealing must steal no longer, but must work, doing something useful with his own hands&hellip;&rdquo; (Ephesians 4:28)
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That pierced me.
Because I have stolen &mdash; not with my hands, but with my eyes. With fantasies. With objectification. With approval-seeking.
But now?
Now I use my hands &mdash; and my lens &mdash; to bless, honor, and give.
I don&rsquo;t capture to consume. I create to reveal the divine.
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<h2 data-end="3727" data-start="3692">&nbsp;</h2>

<h2 data-end="3727" data-start="3692">If No One Has Ever Told You&hellip;</h2>
Let me be the one:
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<li style="font-size: 18px;" data-end="3778" data-start="3751">Your desire is not dirty.</li>
<li style="font-size: 18px;" data-end="3809" data-start="3781">Your body is not shameful.</li>
<li style="font-size: 18px;" data-end="3863" data-start="3812">You were made in love, for love, by Love Himself.</li>
<li style="font-size: 18px;" data-end="3889" data-start="3866">You are not perverse.</li>
<li style="font-size: 18px;" data-end="3912" data-start="3892">You are not alone.</li>
<li style="font-size: 18px;" data-end="3945" data-start="3915">You are not beyond redemption.</li>
<li style="font-size: 18px;" data-end="3945" data-start="3915">Your story matters.</li>
<li style="font-size: 18px;" data-end="3945" data-start="3915">Your healing is possible.</li>
<li style="font-size: 18px;" data-end="3945" data-start="3915">Your Eden is calling.</li>
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<h2 data-end="4267" data-start="4240">Return to the Garden</h2>
Eros in Eden isn&rsquo;t just a photo session. It&rsquo;s a rite of return.
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<li style="font-size: 18px;" data-end="4367" data-start="4346">Return to your body</li>
<li style="font-size: 18px;" data-end="4393" data-start="4370">Return to your beauty</li>
<li style="font-size: 18px;" data-end="4456" data-start="4396">Return to the garden where God still walks &mdash; waiting for you</li>
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You were never meant to carry this shame. You were always meant to shine.
Let&rsquo;s walk home &mdash; together.
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📸 Called to Eden: Why I Photograph Boudoir in the Name of Redemption

Stepping into the world of boudoir photography, you will quickly realize that it's not just about capturing images, but about celebrating every individual's unique beauty. Boudoir photography stands as a powerful testament to body positivity, embracing every bit of our human diversity.
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In my journey as a boudoir photographer, I've seen firsthand how this art form can help clients appreciate their bodies and feel empowered. It's a breathtaking moment when a client recognizes their allure and worth, and it's a moment that doesn't require them to fit into a magazine cover model's mold.
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What makes boudoir photography so special is its ability to celebrate all body types. Whether you sport curves or angles, whether you're tall or short, boudoir photography is about capturing you, in all your glory. There's no judgment, only a deep respect for the diverse forms of beauty we each bring to the table.
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As professional photographers, we play a crucial role in creating a welcoming environment. We are here to guide you, to make you feel at ease, and to help you connect with the parts of yourself that you may have forgotten or have never truly connected with before. This is not about altering your appearance to fit an unrealistic standard, but about capturing the true essence of who you are.
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The magic happens when you start to see yourself through the lens of body positivity, recognizing the sensuality and beauty that you possess. It's about drawing out the inner goddess within you and allowing her to shine. And trust me, there's nothing more rewarding than seeing the expressions of joy and amazement on my clients' faces when they see themselves through this new lens.
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Our mission, as boudoir photographers, is to help you combat the harsh self-criticism that many of us fall victim to. We aim to capture you in a way that helps you see your unique beauty and to celebrate it. Boudoir photography is a journey of self-discovery, self-love, and empowerment. And we're here, ready to guide you on that journey, one beautiful photograph at a time.

The Power of Body Positivity in Boudoir Photography

A boudoir photoshoot can be an uplifting and empowering experience, but preparing for it can seem daunting. However, with the right guidance and mindset, you can make this experience one to remember. Here are some tips to help you prepare for your boudoir session.
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Firstly, choosing the right wardrobe is crucial. You want to feel comfortable, confident, and alluring. Consider pieces that accentuate your favorite features. This could be anything from a lacey bra and panty set to a cozy sweater or even just a simple white sheet. Don't forget accessories like jewelry, hats, and scarves. The key is to choose items that make you feel fabulous, not what you think you should wear.
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Next, let's talk about skincare. In the days leading up to your session, be sure to hydrate, moisturize, and exfoliate. This will give your skin a healthy glow. On the day of the shoot, keep makeup natural and let your true beauty shine through. If you decide to get a tan or wax, do so several days before the shoot to avoid any skin irritation.
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Preparing mentally for your session is just as important. Remember, a boudoir session is not about looking like a magazine cover model. It's about embracing and celebrating your own unique beauty. So, give yourself permission to love yourself as you are. Practice self-love and acceptance in the days leading up to your session. Positive affirmations can also help boost your confidence.
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Lastly, remember to relax and have fun. This is your time to shine, to feel empowered, and to celebrate your beauty. Trust your photographer, they have a passion for helping individuals discover their allure and worth. Your boudoir session should be an enjoyable and empowering experience.
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In conclusion, preparing for a boudoir photoshoot involves much more than just picking out lingerie. It's about planning, taking care of your skin, and most importantly, fostering a positive mindset. You are beautiful, and your photoshoot will be a celebration of that. Embrace the experience, and you'll come away with not only stunning photos but also a newfound appreciation for your own beauty.

Top Tips for Preparing for Your Boudoir Photoshoot

In the world of photography, boudoir stands out as an intimate, personal and empowering genre. It captures the essence of sensuality, beauty and elegance in a way that few other styles can match. However, to truly bring out the best in a boudoir shoot, one needs the expertise and skills of a professional photographer.
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A professional boudoir photographer brings to the table a wealth of experience and a keen eye for detail. They know how to craft high-quality, artistic images by manipulating light, angles and composition. With their superior cameras and equipment, they can capture the subtleties of mood, texture and tone that a less experienced photographer or a standard camera might miss. The result is images that are not just visually stunning, but also deeply evocative and personal.
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But boudoir photography is not just about the technical aspects. It's about creating an environment where the subject feels comfortable and confident. A professional photographer understands this. They know how to guide their clients, helping them find poses that enhance their natural beauty and express their unique personality. They also understand the importance of discretion and sensitivity in a boudoir shoot, ensuring their clients feel safe and respected throughout the process.
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Moreover, a professional photographer can also offer valuable advice on styling, props and location. They can guide you on how to pick outfits that will flatter your body shape and skin tone. They can suggest props and poses that will add depth and intrigue to your images. And they can help you choose a location that will provide the perfect backdrop to your shoot, whether it's a lavish hotel suite, a rustic country house or a chic urban loft.
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In conclusion, hiring a professional photographer for your boudoir shoot is an investment in quality, comfort and confidence. It's about ensuring that your images not only look stunning, but also truly reflect who you are. So, if you're considering a boudoir shoot, don't settle for less. Opt for a professional photographer and let them help you create images that you'll treasure for a lifetime.

The Art and Importance of Hiring a Professional Boudoir Photographer

I just wanted to write yall a quick note of thank you!  Yesterday was just amazing!  What you both did for Jane was just so amazing and wonderful!  I've never seen her so sexy and confident.  The way you explained every step, gave her breaks when you felt she needed them, and just kept her so comfortable were all just so amazing.  And the snacks and champagne were just wonderful.  We have just such a warm and fuzzy feeling about our experience.  We will be riding this buzz of love for each other and just the overwhelming positive experience that we shared for years to come.  I feel comfortable saying that you two have a gift from God for this.    We started this journey early last summer, and this is absolutely our most positive experience.

Mr and Mrs R

Aphrodite offered such a wonderful experience, from start to finish. We were afraid that a photo shoot would be a somewhat clinical experience (all business and not much fun), but that is the farthest thing from how it actually was. As soon as you arrive, L and C make you feel comfortable and welcome you and treat you like life long friends. We laughed, had a great time, and absolutely enjoyed the whole process. L and C work so well together to offer a great experience from snacks and wine, to makeup and hair, to outfit selection, to picture ideas, to the amazing finished product. It was an afternoon we will not forget. And the main reason that we went, which was for the pictures, captured us and our relationship better than we could have.

Mr and Mrs M

Nothing short of an amazing experience. And remember, you are booking not just a professional photographer or photo shoot, the experience and obviously, the end product go a long way, too. And Aphrodite's did not disappoint at all. Lee & wife made sure that we were ready before we got to their studio. Once there, you can tell they run a well oiled machine, looking over us as a couple, making sure that we had the best outfits picked out for the occasion, and that we were comfortable and feeling at ease at all times. We might be back to get our "spicy" holiday photos done this year!.

Mr and Mrs P

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"My journey as a boudoir photographer began with my wife's first professional boudoir session. Witnessing her newfound confidence and appreciation for her own beauty after the experience ignited a passion within me. Though we had attempted a boudoir shoot with an aspiring photographer previously, the results fell short of our expectations. It was only after my wife's second session that she truly recognized her own allure and worth, regardless of how she may compare to magazine cover models.

Since then, I have studied under a world-renowned male boudoir photographer, honing my skills to bring out the best in my clients. There is nothing more rewarding than seeing the expressions of joy and amazement on my clients' faces when I reveal the photos I have captured of them. I believe that editing is a crucial part of the process, ensuring that the final product is not an airbrushed fantasy, but a true representation of the individual in front of my camera.

My passion for boudoir photography stems from the belief that every person deserves to discover the hidden parts of themselves that may be buried deep within. Whether you have forgotten that side of yourself or have never truly connected with it, my team and I are here to guide you on that journey. We would love nothing more than to chat with you and discuss what you're looking for in a boudoir photography experience.

As a photographer, I have observed the harsh self-criticism that many women subject themselves to. My mission is to draw out the inner goddess that resides within each and every woman, to help them see the beauty and sensuality that they may not have recognized before. I am excited for the opportunity to work with you and capture the essence of your unique beauty through the art of boudoir photography."

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📸 Called to Eden: Why I Photograph Boudoir in the Name of Redemption

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Top Tips for Preparing for Your Boudoir Photoshoot

The Art and Importance of Hiring a Professional Boudoir Photographer